MONDAY MOTIVATION

Never let fear make you not to achieve your dreams because fear is just a thing of the mind and you can control your mind.

Selah.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME

Happy birthday to me. I am plus one today.
Thank you Jesus for everything.
I just want to say thank you for the gift of life, health, success, wealth, education and so much more. It has been you God all the way.
Thank you Jesus for making me to be able to withstand whatever the devil throws my way and to always come out victorious in all.  I know i am not where i want to be but i thank God that i am not where i use to be.

Jessica on this day as you add a year to your years more success, prosperity, wealth, health, riches and more has been added unto you.
Jessica you are a strong, resilient, goal getter, hardworking and super woman. Keep winning.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME

But on a more serious note, someone is getting old o. 😕

YARD PALAVA

My people my people una well done o jare.
Hmmmm nawa for wetin dey happen for this we yard o.
Today episode on yard palava na about this my co tenant wey don marry and at the still time him na gigolo wey no dey make make money.  This my co tenant, even before him marry na so so old women wey reach to born am him dey always carry. And the worst part be say we no dey see the money for him body.

This bros you go hardly see am with small girl. People for our yard even surprise when him marry one young fine girl like that. Na so we come dey happy say bros gigolo go stop him escapades now wey him don marry but for where.  Anything wey bros wife go her family house like this, na so bros go invite one over sharpaly. No type of old woman wey bros no dey carry o. The thing tire people wey dey our compound so tey one even come dey ask me nonsense question say how dey bros take dey enjoy this women, abi if the old women dey turn bros on?

If una see the kin eye wey i look am eh. Na so i ask am if na me and bros dey do the thing together or if i dey bros mind to take know wetin him dey feel? As the aproko master concern abi?
Nobody gree tell him wife o, because e no concern us and even she fit no believe am; so all of us na siddon dey look we dey.
Aunty troublemaker even tell me one day say she go tell the wife everything wey her husband dey do, na so me i tell her say nothing concern her and make she mind her troublemaking; na so aunty wan face me that day. I just jejely leave her enter room cos me i no fit begin shout with mad woman.

Bros gigolo wey no dey make money kontinu, i sha know say one day you eife go catch you because everyday is for the thief and one day is for the owner.

Na the aproko wey i get for una today be that.
Make una enjoy una weekend

FASHIONISTA STYLE CRUSH

Our fashion style crush for this week is Laura ikeji kanu.  She is an author, fashionista, brand influencer,owns a store, a youtuber and so much more.

She is daring and openminded when it comes to her fashion sense.
She loves trying new things to see how they look on her.
She goes all out when it comes to her fashion style.
One thing i notice about her fashion style is she loves putting on blazers, shirts and jeans. If you see most of her pictures on instagram, you will notice it too.  But when she wants to go all out, she does it without holding back.

I love her sense of style and most especially not trying to play it safe when it comes to fashion.

She is our fashionista style crush of the week and we love her.

More of her pictures below.

CHILDHOOD MEMORY

Let me share a little story about my childhood memory.
When i was little, like 3 years old; i use to dance a lot. When my mum is done bathing me and i entered our room, i will just start dancing and even while she is bathing me i will be dancing without no music or drum. I will dance and dance and dance until i finish putting on my clothes.  It went on for a very long time. My dad had to forcefully make me stop that when i turned 10.

I remembet those times if i start dancing, my dad and mum will always say in our dialect 'n di otu ye a ku wa ra nia egu ozo' meaning my spiritual friends has started drumming for me again.
I will dance with so much energy and excitement like i can hear the beat from somewhere and whereas no beat or music playing anywhere. Even my siblings use to call me ogbanje then.  And the funniest part is it only happens when i just finish having my bath.

Now when i remember those times i laugh so hard and i keep wondering, who was playing the music i was always dancing to?
Such a funny and atimes not funny to my dad display i always put up then.

Please share your childhood memory in the comment section. What is that weird childhood memory or behaviour you use to do back then, lets laugh together.

QUESTION OF THE DAY

If you win a lottery today what will you do?
You played a bet or lottery and you find out that you won the lottery and the amount you won is $10m, what will you do?

What is the first thing that will come to your mind to do?
Think well before you answer.

Exactly what this girl in the image above is doing is what i will do first because i wouldn't be able to contain my joy.
I will run around the whole house and compound screaming and shouting first before even thinking of what to do. Even before going to collect the money even.

Leave a comment and let me know the first thing that you will do.

RELATIONSHIP MATTERS

Today on relationship matters, we will talk about long distance relationship.
I see a lot of people go into long distance relationship for different reasons.  Some go into it because they need someone that wouldnt be in their face all the time(not seeing the person always), some go into it just because they need someone they can be going out of their city to visit, some others go into it just for the fun of it and a whole lot more other reasons.

Long distance relationship to me is a two way thing, in the sense that it needs both party to make it work.  The number 1 major thing that is required is communication.
When there is no much communication, it will not work.  The both parties has to always be communicating 100%.

I remember when i was dating a guy in netherlands. He only comes to Nigeria once in 2years and then we see whenever he comes. I didn't have a problem with seeing him only once in 2years because our communication was 100%. We could talk for hours and we are never at lost as to what to talk about. Atimes we do video calls and all.  But everything started falling apart when the communication reduced drastically and that affected our relationship up to the point where i couldn't endure it anymore and i ended it.

And why the communication reduced was cos he couldn't endure been celibate till when he comes to Nigeria like he use to do before. He got into another relationship and with that our relationship suffered for it.
So to me long distance relationship does not work. At first it might work but after some time i guarantee you either the guy or the lady will get tired of the whole thing.

Another thing that is needed in long distance relationship is trust. Trust is a vital part of making a long distance relationship work because if you don't trust your partner, different ideas will be running through you head atimes when you think about them; things like what are they doing now, are they with another woman/man? And so much more.

With that incident that happened to me, i gave up on long distance relationship because i invested my time and so much more into the relationship.
But for some people long distance relationship has worked perfectly well for them.

So i want you to comment and share your thoughts on this topic and your experience, if you have any on long distance relationship.

NEW MONTH IS HERE AGAIN

            HAPPY NEW MONTH PEOPLE

#mayyouhavejoyoverflowthisnewmonth
#mayblessingrushyoulikeneverbefore
#maywealthuntoldbeyoursthismonth
#mayfavoursurroundyouthismonth
#maydoorsofopportunitiesbeopenedtoyou

PURITY (the untold story) EPISODE 1

"Kpo kpo kpo kpo kpo" the sound of the mortar her neighbour is pounding very early in the morning woke her up.
Purity would have complained, murmured and cursed under her breath but she was now use to it and again she is too excited to even bother about it; beacuse she knows that very soon she will move to a better place since she got promoted yesterday as the secretary to the ceo of the company where she works.
She sings to herself while taking her shower and came out of the shower with a broad smile on her face like that of a child that was offered chocolate.

"Kpraaaa kpraaaa" the hangers danced to the rhythm of purity's hand as she tries to look for what to wear in her wardrobe.
"Today is my first day as the secretary to the ceo, so i need to look smart and sharp" she said to herself.  She quickly dresses up and as she applies her makeup her mind wanders towards the dream she keeps having. She has been having the same dream since she was a child and she keeps wondering why she always have that same dream and what the dream means.
She tries to take her mind off it. She remember her mum and how happy she will be when she breaks the news to her.
She grins with delight as the thought comes to her mind; her sparkling white teeth shone with so much brightness like the sun.
She picks up her phone and handbag and hurridly left her room.

The early morning breeze beats her face as she walks towards the bus stop. She thought about how God has always been there for her, right from when she was born according to the story her mum told her.
She jerked when she felt a hand touch her.
'Fred you scared me'
FRED: what are you so deep in thought about that you are grinning from ear to ear? Or are you thinking about me?
PURITY: you wish. I'm just thinking how God has been so good to me.  I got promoted as the secretary to the ceo of the company where i work.
FRED: for real? Congratulations girl.
PURITY: thank you.
FRED: my uber is here. Get it let me drop you at your place of work.  They entered the car and as the driver tries to start the car and move.....BANGGG

WHAT HAPPENED?  find out in the next episode

SKINCARE TIPS

Protecting and taking care of your skin should be an important factor to you.  Our skin is very delicate and so needs to be properly taken care of. Little things you can do to take care of your skin.

1. Cleaning your face every night to remove all your makeup and dirt on the face is very important. It helps the skin perform well.

2. Exfoliate your skin either once or twice a week. You can do it morning or at night but i will advice you do it mostly at night because your skin renews at night, so exfoliating at night enhances the skin's function.

3. Moisturize your body daily with moisturizing lotion for healthy and hydrated skin.


4. Always wear a sunscreen everyday while going out because the sun can do a lot of damage to your skin. Sunscreen will protect you from harmful rays.

5. Drink a lot of water everyday. Drinking water keeps you hydrated and gives you a good skin.  You can add lemon or lime juice to your water if you like.


These are few ways you can take care of your skin.   If you have anything to add to it please do in the comment section.

THANK YOU

THINK VACATION, THINK GHANA

 Are you planning to go on a quick vacation all by yourself, with friends or with family and you are wondering where to go that wouldn't drain your account?
Then i suggest you go to accra ghana and it is also visa free from Nigeria.

Over 2 million people are living in Ghana and it's also one of Africa's safer country.
Will be listing few of the attraction sites that you can visit while in ghana.



LABADI BEACH is one of the beautiful beaches in accra ghana. The environment is serene and beautiful to behold.  The beach has an hotel you can stay in and view the ocean in its splendour.  You can also visit coco beach and bojo beach. These are the most visited beaches in Ghana.

                       Labadi beach hotel

                         Labadi beach



MAKOLA MARKET is one place you should never miss when you visit accra. It is colourful and always full of life. You can get anything and everything you want at the market and its a beautiful place to visit.

                         Makola market



JAMESTOWN is also another tourist attraction site you should visit. At jamestown there is a building named james fort. It used to be a monument of the Europeans and slavery.

                           Jamestown



THE NATIONAL THEATER is a beautiful tourist attraction to visit. You will be wowed by the splendour of the building right from the outside most especially at night. It was built in the 90s and has been a tourist site since then.

                      The national theater



THE INDEPENDENCE SQUARE also known as the back star square is a public place in accra Ghana and is also a place you would like to visit. Inside the independence square, there is the independence arch which contains monuments to Ghana's independence struggle, the black star gate and the Liberation monument.

            The independence square accra.



KWAME NKRUMAH MAUSOLEUM MEMORIAL is  the last resting  place of the first ghanian president, osagyefo Dr kwame nkrumah.  It is dedicated to him for his outstanding  campaign to liberate ghana from the colonial rule.  It is a beautiful place to visit

      Kwame nkrumah mausoleum memorial

TROUBLEMAKER AUNTY ( PART 2)

Nobody among all of us know say na wetin this lady get for mind not even aunty troublemaker. As the lady do like say she wan go enter her room na so she stand up dey waka dey go and as God wan take punish aunty troublemaker, she dey the side wey the lady room dey. Na so this lady grab aunty o come begin beat am oo. She beat nonsense and ingredients for aunty body o. 

The way wey the film take happen sef funny me; i no know when i burst laugh. Before people try to separate them aunty don chop beating wella. As aunty see small space free herself from the lady hand na so she run enter her house come lock her net, come continue to dey curse this lady oo. 

The lady just leave her enter her room because she don give her enough beating as she like.  Aunty no stop to curse this lady o even after everybody don leave her enter their room. Me i no know say aunty see me dey laugh her as she dey chop beating o, i just notice say aunty stop to dey great me and me i no care. Na one of my neighbour na im tell me the reason why because aunty tell am.    

Wetin concern me abi na, who her greeting epp? Shebi she dey feel say she like trouble now she don jam who pass her. 

Oshisko mtcheeeeeew.

10 FACTS ABOUT ME

I am a blunt person.

I love kids so much.

I am the fifth child out of seven children.

I am passionate about God and dont joke with anything that concerns Him.

I love to give, even if it's my last cash for that moment.

I love to write, i derive joy in writing.

I dont drink tea or take pap right from when i was born.

I crave for success like i crave for food.

I love to eat( dont castigate me; its not my fault)

I was born when i completed 8months in my mum’s womb(i'm a miracle child 😙)

WHO IS YOUR BEST FASHION SLAYER.

                       
Here are your big brother naija female housemates. They all have good sense of style in their own way but who amongst them is the best for you.
I know most of you follows their page on instagram and having been seeing their dressing and all, so rate them from all you have been seeing and not base on this pictures of them i posted

Choose the top 3 for you stating who is the first, second and third.

                                    Alex

                                  Nina

                                Ahneeka

                                Ifuennada

                                   Anto

                                  Khloe

                                  Vandora

                                 Princess

                                   Ceec

TROUBLEMAKER AUNTY

Today on yard palava.

There is this neighbour of mine that can quarrel for Africa. If possible quarrel with a spirit.
Aunty can quarrel so tee people go tire to tell her o ti to( e don do) but aunty no dey hear e don do oo. Infact na that time wey you dey tell her e don do na him she dey shout pass. People for yard go tire to tell her say e don do and everybody go enter their room go sleep so that she go kontinue to shout her shout well.

This aunty continue this madness until one day she jam who pass am.
Another of my neighbour(a guy) bring him woman to come dey stay with am, na so this aunty clinch to the lady them come become friends o.

Me just the look the lady with one eye. For my mind i talk say e ma ro onye gi ni a ne me oyi( you no know who you and am be friend). Wetin con sain me, na sedon look i dey for this compound oo.
Na so one day i dey inside my room jejely dey listen to music, na im i begin hear this aunty voice o. For my mind i say she and who again today.   I shock when i come out e come be she and her new best friend oo.
When we ask wetin cause problem she say aunty tell the lady bad things about her guy and since then the lady begin avoid aunty o, na so aunty vex con dey talk to her anyhow.

This lady just dey look aunty as aunty dey curse her. Wey dey tell aunty say e don do but as usual aunty no hear oo.
Na so this lady stand up like say she wan enter her room o, na that time casala burst o.
WATCH OUT FOR PART 2