I use to think this kind of lifestyle are for the whites because they feel that way they will get to know each other better, so to them it is normal. But i have come to nice its now a norm in Africa now especially Nigeria and i wonder why.
You a lot of young guys and ladies living together and not yet married. You see the lady performing wifely duties and you know the worst part of it; the guy might not marry the lady in the end. I have seen so many cases like that and i ask myself why do some ladies move in with a man when he hasnt done anything on your head.
It might be working for the whites but it rarely work here in Nigeria because most of the men will feel they have seen you all and that you are desperate to get married and all.
I remember a guy that i dated one time, he lived Germany and relocated back to Nigeria. We meet and started dating. When problem started and even made the relationship to come to an end was when he said he wants me to come live with him so we can get to know each other better.
I emphatically said no and problems started between us which eventually led to our breaking up.
I for one do not buy the idea of a guy and a lady living together without been legally married beacuse i feel it is not a right thing to do and the guy will see you finish(pidgin) and feel he has nothing to enjoy when he eventually marries you.
I want you opinions on this. What is your take on this topic. Comment and lets discuss.
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